Hello, those friends who have been blaming and suppressing their families at home for a long time, their behavior is either foolish or bad. The true stupidity and badness are those who spend their days suppressing their children, attacking their partners, being strong and domineering at home. They are full of negative energy themselves, but they make the whole family bear it together. Whenever they speak, there is endless blame and judgment, like an emotional black hole that devours the vitality and energy of the whole family.

Such families, once such members appear, their daily lives often fall into chaos and conflicts may erupt at any time. Every family member lives a life of anxiety, as if walking on thin ice, unaware of when and where new conflicts and troubles may arise.

For a family, emotional stability is undoubtedly crucial. It is like the guardian deity of the family, ensuring that every member can feel the warmth of home. When family members are filled with smiles and interact with each other in a friendly manner, the family atmosphere naturally becomes harmonious and pleasant. However, those who often blame and attack their families, and appear strong and domineering, actually lack a sense of security deep down in their hearts. They may not have received enough love and recognition during childhood, which resulted in them being unable to handle their emotions properly as they grew up, and thus venting all their dissatisfaction at home, making every family member a bearer of their emotions. The inferiority complex of such people often drives them to excessively control their families in order to make up for their inner emptiness. They may show a controlling desire to criticize in front of their family, but they present a completely different face in the outside world.

Successful individuals are not devoid of emotions, but rather adept at regulating their emotions to ensure they do not affect decision-making. The reason why wise people can maintain a peaceful mindset is not because they have no emotions, but because they are well versed in the way of control and understand that complaining and blaming are useless. Adults should learn to cultivate their inner selves, control their emotions, avoid being influenced by them, and become masters of their emotions. Family should be a warm haven, away from the smoke and flames of war, filled with joy and tranquility, rather than a source of tension and fear. In the family, couples should live in harmony, tolerate and understand each other, support and affirm each other, rather than venting their inner dissatisfaction by hitting each other.

Life, this unfathomable practice, everyone will experience emotional ups and downs and waves. The seven emotions and six desires are human nature, but we must not allow emotions to overflow like floods and beasts. In the face of various challenges in life, we must learn to maintain rationality and respond with calmness and wisdom.

In the adult world, controlling emotions is particularly important. We should not vent our anger on our family members, as it will only hurt those closest to us. On the contrary, we should learn to maintain a calm attitude, handle things calmly, complain and blame less, and understand and affirm more. Only in this way can we create a family environment full of love and harmony.